For Gold, Glitter, & Glory

to die trying

I've made a new blog -

 

todietrying.com

 

I explain why I moved my blogging in this post, and I've transferred my favorite For Gold, Glitter, & Glory blogs over there under the tag 'ggg.' I haven't posted here for over 13 months, but it's still getting a little traffic. It will be up until the summer and then I will say goodbye to my first public writing experience. It's been such an amazing experience creating, maintaining, and writing for my first blog, but it's time to move on to bigger and better things.

This will be my last post on For Gold, Glitter, & Glory and I'd be lying if I said I won't miss it a little.  It was my very first corner of the Internet. Please visit me over on To Die Trying in the future and thank you, for the last time, for reading the words on this particular site.

24 years.

 

Ann Taylor blouse, Ralph Lauren pants, Etienne Aigner boots, necklace from Target, Michael Kors watch

I turned 24 today and it was a marvelous day. The kind that make you really glad it's your birthday, all day long. E and I both took off work and spent the day doing whatever I wanted, which of course resulted in thrift store and baked goods perfection.

I've been excited about turning 25 for a while now (because I have a really great feeling about 25), but only recently about turning 24. This last year has been a sort of hibernation for me and I think new adventure is just around the corner. Plus the good news is, I'm still not too old for cake!

Thank you to everyone who wished me a happy birthday, and especially to my generous family and to e for giving me such a perfect day. I really am a lucky lady and am so grateful for everyone I get to share my years with. 

Brown paper packages tied up with string.

 

source

 

Last holiday season was our first out of college - in other words, we were broke. We didn't bring any leftover wrapping materials when we moved to North Carolina so rather than shelling out the cash for multiple types of wrapping paper, matching bows, and assorted bags, I bought a big roll of brown kraft paper for five bucks. I used it with leftover craft materials like twine, glitter, velvet ribbon, and a glue pen for all our gifts last year (see here). It held up great when we traveled and it had a sort of rustic and traditional feel to it.

Considering I still have yards of that stuff, I'll be re-using it this year, but I want to incorporate a few different elements. Here are some of my favorite ideas I've found. If you need more wrapping inspiration, check out my 'That's a wrap.' Board on my Pinterest.

 

Tiny white polka dots. source

Bakers string and a button. source

Doodle with Sharpies and white out pens. source

Super-cool reversible silver and kraft paper. source

 

27 Years.

Meet my parents.  These two are my heros, role models, and inspiration. The older I get, the more and more I appreciate them not only as my parents, but as a couple I can truly look up to and admire. They are so much more than spouses to one another; they are best friends. They laugh together, play together, and explore new things together. Whereas some parents I know tend to "settle down" as they age, my parents seem to have done the opposite. They met traveling the globe and haven't stopped since.

I love their love and am so happy for them as they celebrate their 27th wedding anniversary today. Happy Anniversary Mom and Daddy! Here's to the next 27!

My Thoughts On: Giving thanks.

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time. The family all gathers, the food is plentiful, and everyone talks about what they are thankful for.  More than that, Thanksgiving tends to be one of the only times of year that we truly feel gratitude.  Some years are so good I can literally feel it bubbling up inside of me to the point where I may explode if I don't squeeze the life out of a loved one.  We have so much to give thanks for.  If you are merely reading this, you obviously have so much to be thankful for, like access to technology and literacy.  

As another Thanksgiving passes, we go about our ways and may be tempted to leave the feelings of thankfulness on the shelf until they are dusted off next November.  My challenge to my readers, and to myself, is to live every day with that magical feeling of Thanksgiving.  While I certainly can't eat lunch every day like it's Thanksgiving, and I don't see my family all that often, a true and humble attitude of gratitude is something you can feast on all year long.  

What are you thankful for?  Those things last longer than Thanksgiving Day.

 

Our simple Thanksgiving table this year. See last year's table here.

My Thoughts On: The election.

original image here

When the President of the United States walks into a room, the room stands.  We as a country may divide its views every four years into two neatly categorized legal plans, but once the leaders are decided, differences are put aside and our representatives attempt to come to agreements that benefit all voters of the country.  That is what our country does, and that is what sets us aside from so many other countries around the world.

My parents never raised me partisan.  In my 23 years, I can recall elections they voted Democrat, Republican, and even Independent.  I was raised that your duty as an American was to inform yourself about the issues, align them with your own morals and situation, vote for the candidate you believed would lead the country in the right direction, and respect the Commander-in-Chief once our country had elected him or her.  

This election, I have seen some very disturbing and downright disrespectful commentary from all sides on social media and online networks.  I have my opinions and I'm pretty firm on what I believe, but I distance myself online because the candidates have earned that respect.  Yes, we as Americans are incredibly fortunate to have the Freedom of Speech at the core of our founding documents, but there needs to be a line.

To me, a patriot takes their hat off and covers their heart during the National Anthem and knows you try not to let the flag touch the ground.  A patriot smiles at veterans.  And a patriot respects the President for the office they have earned.  The true patriot isn't the one who abuses their rights to be obnoxious or harrassing about their views online, it's the one who can set aside their own partisian beliefs to compromise for the greater good of the country.

President Barack Obama and Govenor Mitt Romeny are not evil men; they are a representative of our great country and they are entitled to having the respect and backing of their people.  I rarely pass up a chance to laugh at a good political joke, but I do my best to be a respecful adult when posting about the leader or potential leader of my country.  It means a lot to me to show respect to others who believe differently than me.  My most earnest hope for this election is that after tonight, the United States can once again put aside partisian labels and push our government to concern themselves with us all, not just a little more than half the country.

I love being an American, I love being able to vote, and I love living in a time where so many important decisions will be made.  To whomever we call 'Mr. President' beginning in January: congratulations sir.  You have truly earned it.

 

Visiting the White House back in 2009.

Sunday Funday: Reedy Creek

When E and I first transitioned into traditional work week schedules, Sundays quickly became our favorite day of the week. It's the only day of the week we are almost-guaranteed to spend it fully together, and even though chores need doing and errands need running, we've incorporated Sunday rituals so we always have something to look forward to. We get bagels in the morning (a childhood tradition of mine) and, when the weather is nice, we go for a hike in the early afternoon.  

This Sunday, we went to Reedy Creek for the second time. The first time we hiked the cross-country trail which was nice but rather short, but this week we did the 4 mile greenway and it was much more to our liking. The first couple miles are on a straight path through the Reedy Creek Fields and look right out of a movie set. The second half of the hike loops into the woods and was stunning in the fall.

Check out my weekly Sunday Funday posts if you're local and love the great outdoors, or be encouranged to go exploring in your own area.  

 

At one point in the trail we started to see these hand painted signs hanging randomly on trees. Wise quotes by Dr. Seuss and Winnie the Pooh.

 

Seasons Change: Fall 12

Picture from last year (more here)

Fall is my absolute favorite time of year. Summer is refreshing but always busy, with this year as no exception. The weather here in Charlotte started to turn right as the official season began, and the chillier mornings and evenings have me thinking of the weeks to come. I had a great summer, but I don't feel like I fit in everything I wanted to. To make certain I don't miss anything this season, I made a personal list of things I plan to do this fall.

• Go pumpkin-patching (just like last year)
• Find a local county fair
• Bake something pumpkin for e and something salted caramel for me
• Decorate our yard for Trick-or-Treaters!! (I'm most excited about this one)
• Go hiking so often I can see the leaves change colors
• Brave orange lipstick (recommendations welcome)
• Eat massive amounts of candy corn
• Sleep with the windows open (a rare treat for us Southerners)
• Get up to the mountains (the best getaway there is)

How do you want to spend your fall? Comment below and tell me what you would add to my list!

Paris in Savannah.

The Paris Market stocks a huge crate of lavender that you can buy by the heavenly-smelling scoop.

Savannah has been one of my most favorite places in the world for over 10 years and I was happy to go this weekend for one of my best friend's bachlorette weekend. Before we took her out on the town, she asked to go to a few places around Savannah she loves the most - including River Street, a local candy store, and a shared favorite of ours, The Paris Market. The owners must live an amazing life considering they travel the world to stock their store with true global antiques. From stacks of old photos to the tiny cafe in the corner, I can get lost in there for hours, and it was so nice to spend the weekend with some classy girls who felt the same.

Furniture With a Soul.

Recently, I was very excited to be invited to a private press party celebrating the opening of Nadeau - Furniture with a Soul, in Charlotte. The store is amazing, with unique, handcrafted home decor stacked to the ceiling. Every part of my experience was wonderful, from the warm and interested staff, to exploring every nook and cranny of the (huge) showroom. I can't wait to go back and buy some one-of-a-kind decorations for our new home. And good news for my readers outside of Crown Town: they have 18 other stores nationwide!

Sheer Sleeve.

 

Yetts dress, Nine West shoulder purse, Jessica Simpson heels, Miu Miu shades, Michael Kors watch and bracelet

My mom bought me this sheer-sleeve dress at Christmas and I've been eyeing it in my closet ever since. A couple weeks ago, e and I traveled to Atlanta for a Stock the Bar couples shower for some of our dearest friends. Knowing I'd be spending hours in the car before arriving, I wanted something comfortable and cool that wouldn't wrinkle. Plus it saved my arms from getting a tan line on the drive (which is actually a problem).

Gift Guide: Summer for a little boy.

When I was a kid (who am I kidding - now too), getting "just-because" presents were always the best. I have an adorable nephew who I haven't gotten to visit this summer, so I thought I'd send a little summer to him. I picked up small, fun, toys that I thought a little boy would enjoy over the course of a couple weeks and mailed this to him for a summer surprise. My sister was kind enough to send a video of him opening it and said he was thoroughly pleased with the "Mary Poppins box of toys from Aunt Jess." Young kids are some of the only people left in the world who realize gifts don't have to be pricey to be fun.

Spencer's Summer Essentials:

Cars activity set, light-up bouncy ball, Toy Story paddle-ball, monkey lunchbag, sidewalk chalk, a harmonica, a popcorn bucket and bag of popcorn, flying helicopters, Flarp (the stuff that makes inapropriate noises), bubbles, a Wooly Willy, waterguns, a sticker book, a Toy Story pouch, Splash water balls, a plain card, silly straws, Cars and Toy Story socks, a green flying disc, Cars mini yo-yo, mini kaleidoscope, mini spinning top, and mini paddle-ball, paper filling

2012 Web Awards.

 

Elodie top, One Clothing skirt, Alfani wedges, Tiffany chain, Michael Kors watch and bracelet

 

Friday was the 2012 Web Awards, and although I didn't win, I really can't thank my friends and readers enough for the overwhelming amount of support.  I thought the nomination alone was enough to make me feel like a winner, but having so many votes and encouraging words from everyone was truly my grand prize.  Thank you as well to Elevate Lifestyle Magazine for nominating me and to BlackFinn Saloon for hosting a fun night.

A Home.

We have a house to live in! A big, beautiful, quiet, house with all the things we wanted when we first moved to Charlotte exactly one year ago today. We're without Internet until later this week (this blog published on free coffee shop Wi-Fi), but here's a quick peek into the last few days. They've been fun.

Placing our "where are you from" pin at the realtor's office.

A sweet card from our favorite neighbor.

Wearing my free shirt from the cool kids over at JESS3 in DC.

Honor.

Last week, I recieved a very unexpected email saying this blog was up for Best Personal Blog in Charlotte, and I could not feel more honored to be a nominee.  I am already looking forward to the 2012 Web Awards and hopefully getting to meet the writers from some of the biggest and best blogs/websites in the Queen City.  In fact, I'm even a frequent reader of a couple of my competitors' blogs!

I barely shared the news before the overwhelming support started flooding in. I've said it so often, but I really can't thank you enough for your sweet words, your encouragement, your motivation, your votes, and the neverending generousity of kindness.  And as always, thanks for reading.

Click here to vote for For Gold, Glitter, & Glory as Best Personal Blog in the Charlotte Web Awards 

Just share your vote with one of the icons underneath.  You can like it on Facebook, tweet to Twitter, pin your vote on Pinterest, use Google+, or any combination of the four.  Voting closes Monday morning! Thank you so much!

Colorblock: lemondrop.

When I was a little girl, I refused to wear the color yellow (or black). I can't to this day remember why, or when my fashion taste buds grew accustomed to the color, but it's now the ideal color when I want to add a little extra sunshine to my outfit. Here are some summer trends in another colorblock (see the others). 

1. Baseball tee. By ModCloth. Shown in yellow. $30.

2. Enamel bracelet. By Hermes. Shown in yellow. $610.

3. Clutch. By Anthropologie. Shown in yellow. $168.

4. Sunnies. By Kate Spade. Shown in white/lemontwist. $148.

5. Colored jeans.  By H&M.  Shown in light yellow. $30.

6. Ombre shift dress. By Forever 21. Shown in yellow/white. $17.

Memory: sandwiches on the porch.

Did you know yesterday was National Peanut Butter & Jelly Day?  That's right.  Read it on Twitter (follow me here) and Googled it just for accuracy.  So E and I decided we would celebrate with an old lunchtime staple that we both love and eat far too little of.  It was still nice enough outside, that we finally (after living here for 8 months) had dinner out on our little porch.

Colorblock: coral.

I find myself leaning towards coral more during the spring than any other time of year.  It's the perfect bridge from time Valentine's Day bright red to Easter blush pink.  Following with our spring Colorblocks (see the others here and here).  Here are a few coral goodies I'm loving right now.

(1) Coral Stripe Outdoor Tablewear.  At Target.  $10-20.

(2) Pencil Skirt with Frill.  By ZARA.  $80.

(3) Seal Coral Necklace.  By Lilly Pulitzer.  $48.

(4) Embroidered Shourlder Tee.  By Forever 21.  $15.

(5) Ray-Ban Sunglasses.  By Ray-Ban.  $150.

(6) Glossed Bow Sandals.  By Anthropologie.  $128.

(7) Campari Necklace.  By Stella & Dot.  $128.

(8) Striped Drop Shoulder Knit Dress.  By Express.  $50.

(9) Perpetual Bloom Towels.  By Anthropologie.  $8-36.

(10) Michael Kors Block Pencil Case.  By Michael Kors.  $58.

(11) Two Tone Platform Court Shoe.  By ZARA.  $90.

(12) Horseshoe Cove Scout.  By Kate Spade.  $278.

(13) Le Vernis.  By Chanel.  Shown in Distraction.  $26.

Oh Happy Day.

[The dogwood trees are all in bloom.]

Spring is here, spring is here!  Time to trade heavy boots for open toes and heavy jackets for short sleeves.  Even though today is the official first day of spring, the birds are already chirping, sun already shining, and flowers are already bloomed.  Spring is always a nice time of year because it feels like a fresh start, and it's a good time to check on where you are with any New Year's resolutions you made.

[Flowers outside my office make it hard to stay indoors.]

[Our spring Sunday tradition includes hiking around Charlotte's gorgeous parks.]

Colorblock: mint.

1. Short Gathered Mac.  By Mulberry.  Shown in Fern Green Cotton Drill.  $1000.

2. Banielle Color-Blocked Tank.  By GUESS.  Shown in Aquadisiac Multi.  $59.

3. Chance Eau Fraîche Shimmering Touch.  By Chanel.  $50.

4. OPI nail polish.  Shown in Go on Green! ~$10.

5. Synemite Suede Platforms.  By Steve Madden.  Shown in mint green.  $90.

6. Gauzy Maxi.  By Anthropologie.  Shown in mint.  $138.

7. Tasty Trio Tiffin Box in Light Lunch.  By Modcloth.  $40.

8. Cropped Skinny Colored Jeans.  By Free People.  Shown in Spearmint.  $88.

9. Lytton Small Patent Leather Clutch.  By Diane von Furstenberg.  Shown in Lime Sherbert.  $325.

10. Nylon Ella Tote.  By Tory Burch.  Shown in Navajo Green.  $225.

11. Love Chiffon Floral Print Wrap Dress.  By Asos.  Shown in mint.  $75.

I had a lot of fun making this color blog a couple weeks ago.  Another color popular for spring 2012 is mint green.  Seeing as mint chocolate chip ice cream has been my favorite since childhood, I've always gravitated towards this flattering and clean hue.  Freshen up your spring with a little mint!  

A Morning with Lilly.

Saturday morning, I had the pleasure to attend Lilly Pulitzer's Grand Opening of their new store in SouthPark Mall (the mall on this list).  The store is prettier than one can imagine and the event was perfectly executed!  A special thanks to store manager Kristen and her entire team who were nothing but cheerful, helpful, and colorfully-adorned.  The entire morning was beautiful and I'm so glad I got to be a part of it.  If Saturday's turn out is any indication, I think the new store will be a phenomenal success. 

[Lilly Pulitzer began her business as a juice stand: read the full inspirational story here.]

[Swimsuits ready to be picked up for summer.]

[Cupcakes and rock candy for guests, and they had two girls in the window creating a beautiful painting some lucky customer won in the afternoon.]

[Part of their sorority print line - Can't wait for my sorority to get our own print later this year!]

[The walls, dressing rooms, and even parts of the ceiling were all hand-painted with Lilly Pulitzer's signature floral motif and inspirational beauty.]

[Racks of colorfully classic must-haves.]

[This amazing yellow couch sits in the center of the store.]

[They also carry a huge selection for their Little Lillys; those little swimsuits are adorable!]

[Along with framed prints, there are iPads mounted into the walls throughout the store.]

[Many of you may have already seen some of these via Twitter or Instagram.]

[Lucite & glass table toppers full of accesories like belts & the signature Murfee scarves.]

[My souveniers: two gold necklaces and two gold bangles. Thank you to the lovely ladies for sneaking the key necklace into my bag along with my other pieces. I adore keys!]

I had such a lovely morning, and if you live in the Queen City, you've got to stop by.

Favorites Friday.

[My V-Day present from boyfriend (gold Kate Spade & silver Michael Kors) beside my newish watch (also MK).]

This week has been good for me.  I'm starting to get into a "normal" sleeping pattern adjusting to my new job.  This weekend will be very busy, with a grand opening to attend Saturday morning, a work meeting Saturday evening, and an all-day project to be knocked out Sunday.  Taking the time to enjoy simple beauties is making it much less stressful.

[Our newly-painted kitchen cabinets make dises pop.  We mix our nice dark set with an old, white handcrafted set.]

[1st Etsy purchase (a curious giraffe painted on antique French bookpage) arrived straight from Paris.]

[I'm so excited to be a part of this!]

[One of my manager's gave me these two freshwater pearl strands as a gift at my old job.  Each one is like 5 feet long!  I think I will always keep these nearby.]

In Quarry.

[Express sweater, Ellen Tracy tee, Lucky jeans, Claire's headband, Coach bag, TOMS shoes]

We took these pictures last weekend while we were out antique shopping.  Having the weekends off to spend with boyfriend is even more enjoyable than I imagined, and we're starting to create little weekend traditions.  When rummaging through market booths or strolling aisles of delicate antiques, I always try to dress for it: Soft clothes so you don't snag, flat and comfortable shoes so you don't trip, a small bag that leaves both hands free and won't bang into anything, and I keep my hair out of my face as well.  But comfortable doesn't have to mean slummy.

Colorblock: tangerine.

1. Essie polish.  Shown in Vermillionaire.  $8.

2. Chanel lip color.  Shown in Violet Sapphire.  $34.

3. Kate Spade bag.  New Bond Street Florence.  Shown in flo coral.  $448.

4. rag & bone shirt.  New 88 shirt.  $255.

5. Crate & Barrel throw pillow.  Ibiza 23" Pillow.  Shown in mango.  $80.

6. Banana Republic bangle.  Shown in bright orange.  $40.

7. Ted Baker wallet.  Shown in orange.  $145.

8. Orange paper straws.  Etsy vendor.  $8.

Bright, fresh, citrus colors are in this year, and tangerine is so hot for spring, it's creeping into winter. Various shades of orange can be seen popping up in fashion week photos and early spring collections. Here are some delightfully delicious offerings in scrumptously juicy shades.

Taking a Walk.

[Express sweater and tank, Lucky jeans, UGG knit boots, Kate Spade bracelet, necklace and earrings from Greece, my mom's original wedding bands]

Going for a walk at dusk is always nice.  Especially when the weather in Maryland is nice and breezy... and not covered in snow like it has been for the past two New Years up here.

An Ode To All You Are

Award-winning blogger, trendsetter, fashionista, writer, jeweler, confidant, beauty, lover, "luber," and closest friend, there are no shortage of words that one could use to describe what you mean to me. You've been the staple of my happiness for over four years, and I can only hope I'm lucky enough to never experience what a life without you would be. 

Its been almost five years since you, the unattainable-everything-I've-always-wanted, gave me the hope that the girl of my dreams could become the girl of my reality. You, the smart, sexy, independent and utterly encapsulating girl you were (are still are), defied my expectations, and defined my every desire. 

Looking back now, I know that many things have changed in both our lives. We moved to another state, graduated college, set aside a few dreams so we could dream even bigger, resisted growing up, and have worked everyday at building a home, a life, and respective (and respectable) careers. 

Although much has changed in both of our worlds, one thing has held constant. You are still the unattainable dream-within-a-dream. The beautiful girl who defines the very best of what a life spent together can be. You are the Nicholas Sparks novel I will never read. The one who gives me the "first-kiss-fireworks" every time. You are my hope of a life worth living, and have turned this misanthrope into a sap who would write you a birthday blog. Happy Birthday Princess, I hope that I can give you a fraction of the happiness you never fail to give me. 

-e (the boyfriend)

2011.

This year has been so interesting... life-changing, even.  I've been tested and tried in so many aspects of my personal life, but the past 365 days have brought a presence of peace and happiness that hangs around me, almost like fog in the morning.  2011 brought graduation day, our first home together, and the birth of this blog.  Words cannot express how humbled and thankful I am for each and every set of eyes that graze For Gold, Glitter, & Glory.  I'm excited for 2012, and expect it to be an even crazier year.  A year ago, I had no idea where I would be in 12 month's time, and the same goes for the next 12.  All I know, and know for sure, is that the destination is in the journey, and I intend to savor every second of the ride.  Happy New Year!

Here's some of my favorite memories from 2011, what are some of yours?

Twas the Night Before Christmas.

Our Christmas Eve was a lot of fun.  We opened a few early presents, played board games, baked cookies, and watched Christmas movies.  It was simple, and special, and everything I could wish for in the night before Christmas.

[I got E A Muppet Christmas Carol because it's his favorite and we didn't have it.]

Tis the Season.

[Boyfriend's presents from me.  Brown parchment paper, twine with the ends dipped in glitter, linen craft paper with glittery writing secured with glitter tape.]

As predicted, the weeks leading up to Christmas have been hectic.  Boyfriend started a new job, I pulled double hours at mine, and living "5" minutes from a mall began to have its drawbacks.  Holiday spirit hit me full-force on Christmas Eve, when I went in to work at 7 am.  This year will be quite different, with neither boyfriend or I waking up in our parents' house on Christmas morning.  It will be just the two of us, and I think it will be a Christmas we will always remember.

We're taking extra lengths to keep up each of our own family traditions (like Christmas Eve presents from mine, and Christmas breakfast and holiday movies from his), as well as start new ones all our own.  Even though it may not happen for many more years to come, I think it will be nice (and relaxing) to spend the day together in our first home.  Wishing our families and friends a merry Christmas (we miss you all so much!), and you and yours a very happy holiday as well!

[My aunt's adorable, rustic, and very festive living room.]

[Money snowflake for one of our advents.]

[Dirty santa gift exchange: small/airplane bottles of assorted liquors. Needless to say, it was a huge hit.]

[Adorable goodies baked by a coworker's wife.  How cute are these?!]

[A peek-through of our tree.]

Dreams: Blog: Life.

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So follow my thought process for a moment, if you will.  Here are some thoughts on dreams, blogging, and life.

Earlier this week, I had a wonderful dream.  In said dream, I was sent a large envelope for my birthday.  Inside were cards, letters, internet postings, and other mementos from my life.  I saw birthday cards from my grandmother, MySpace messages from high school, my childhood best friend's 2nd grade handwriting, and crazily-folded-up letters from middle school.  I woke up with a whimsical feeling like my memory has just danced through my childhood.  It really was a lovely dream.

I wanted to share my dream on the blog, but I had a thought that I often have.  "Can I do that on my blog?"  I had a seemingly simple answer.  Well, it's my blog.  I can kind of do whatever I want.

Like I said, I've struggled with this before.  I believe a lot of people do, about different aspects of their lives.  When you're a child, your mind is free and open to posibilites.  As the weight of the world and the test of time challenges everyone as they grow, it's easy to lose sight of who you really are and what you really want.  We get so caught up in life and how we think we're supposed to live it, we forget it belongs solely to ourselves.  To put it simply, your life is your life.  Technically, you can do whatever you want.  Certainly, don't hurt others to live your own bliss, but take control of your life (or maybe loosen your grip on it), and happiness will flood in.

As always, thanks for reading.

Before & After.

 

A couple months ago, we reclaimed this chest of drawers for next to nothing.  Well, for nothing.  It was a great find considering it's solid wood, but was missing much of its' hardware and the ugly cream paint was chipped and old.  Neither of us have ever redone a piece of furniture, so we were a little intimidated.  We finally got around to refinishing it last week, and couldn't believe we didn't do it sooner.  It was a breeze and I'm so proud of the end result!  Here's how we did it. 

We removed the drawers, took it outside, and put it on a plastic sheet.

Then I took a medium-grain sand block to the entire thing while boyfriend removed what was left of the old hardware from the drawer-fronts.

I cleaned it off after sanding, then painted it with a semi-gloss paint in black.  It took three coats to cover the white, but we chose a fast-drying paint so it didn't take too long.

After drying, boyfriend added the new brushed silver knobs.  The two original keyhole pieces were still on there, so I cleaned them off and gave them a quick spray of brushed silver spraypaint to match the knobs. 

And voilà!  A new (to us) dresser for a few hours of work and about $40.

Chilly Cream.

[Steve lace shirt, American Eagle sweater, Lucky jeans, New York & Company puff jacket, Steve Madden oxfords, Miki Moto pearl studs, Heritage knit cap]

Yesterday, I wasn't feeling my best and even had to leave a special event at work a little early to come home and rest.  When boyfriend got home, he took me to go get my favorite soup to make me feel better.  I wrapped up tight for the windy weather, and we came home to a night of snuggling on the couch under my childhood blanket and watching the Victoria Secret Fashion Show.

Living.

Last week, while preparing for Thanksgiving, we made some major strides on improving our living space.  Finally buying a couch, my parents giving us an early Christmas present of a TV, and rearranging everything has seriously made me love our little apartment a little more.  It still has a ways to go, but I'm proud enough of it now to share some pictures.  Enjoy!

PS - last night we also drank egg nog, hummed holiday songs, and put our first Christmas tree up.  We actually bought the tree together for my old bedroom in Chattanooga years ago.  We were afraid it might be a little barren (it's not a very expensive tree), but we were quite pleased with it when all was said and done.  Creating memories in this little apartment together may be my favorite part of this holiday season.

[If you follow me on Twitter, you know we were watching a Star Wars marathon. Nerds.]

What to Wear: Thanksgiving.

[Outfit details.]

I may or may not have had a slight heart attack when I realized Thanksgiving is a mere week away.  Normally, my Thanksgiving responsibilities include watching the Macy's Day Parade on the couch and eventually sauntering into the kitchen to help with the non-turkey dishes for lunch.  This year, we didn't have the time off work to travel, but my parents, aunt, uncle, and cousins are coming to our apartment for the holiday.  This next week will fly by with cleaning, decorating, and (of course) picking out the perfect hostess outfit.

[Outfit details.]

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Leaf it; Fall Behind.

[WD NY sweater over Max Studio dress, Express necklace and belt, Steve Madden boots, vintage Coach satchel.]

This week we had a tiny heat surge which called for a drive with the windows down, exposed knees, a pleasant outdoor-lunch.  Autumn has always been my favorite time of year, but my south-Georgia college town was so warm, the trees either stayed green or disposed of their leaves so quickly that I didn't enjoy it as much.  I hope we always get to live in an area with as pretty a fall as we are having in Charlotte.

Boot Loot.

  

I don't know any girl in her right mind that doesn't love boots.  Here are some styles I can dig for this year's chillier seasons.  I obviously need to double my collection this winter (proof here, here, here, here, here, and here).

1. Flat Ankle Boot.  By Zara.  $99.

2. Alright Shooties.  Shown in red.  By Marc Fisher.  $109.

3. Izett Tall Boot.  Shown in green coco suede.  By Nine West.  $167.

4. Air Kennedy Buckle Boot.  Shown in dark chocolate/gray wool felt.  By Cole Haan.  $398.

5. Whisttle Peep Toe Booties.  Show in multi.  By Steve Madden.  $99.

6. Fur-Lined Ankle Boot.  By Elizabeth and James.  $425.

7. Fringe Tassle Combo Lace Up Pump.  Shown in dark brown/brick.  Marc by Marc Jacobs.  $390.

8. Keara Boot.  Shown in dark brown/spider dull.  By Jessica Simpson.  $139.

School Spirit.

[Nine 1 Eight top, handmade feather earrings, necklaces: Forever 21 & gifted, scarves: pashmina purchased in Italy, embroidered gifted from England, Chor pants, Nine West wedges]

When we went back to college for Homecoming weekend, I needed a gameday outfit.  It was cool and breezy, so I was comfy (and warm) in a pair of skinny navy cords, flowy cream top and scarves with touches of gold (school colors of course).  I wisely chose wedge heels that were dressy and actually comfortable.

Halloween.

[Tangy candy in a hand-carved Hawaiin monkeywood bowl.]

Halloween weekend was enjoyable, but pretty relaxed.  We are traveling next weekend and wanted to take it easy.  Friday night, we went back to the pumpkin patch for some fresh outdoor deco, got a pizza, and came home to watch a horror movie.  Saturday, we went to a midnight showing of The Rocky Horror Picture Show in Charlotte's renowned NoDa district.  I briefly dressed up for work on Monday and bought a giant bag of candy on the way home for any trick-or-treaters that night.  Final count: 0.  My dentist thanks you.

[The marquee of The Neighborhood Theatre.]

[Halloween cards from my mom (right) and aunt (left).]

[Pumpkin hunting attire: Express top and jacket, Eddie Bauer jeans, handmade feather earrings, Michael Kors boots]

SAS Cupcakes.

[Susan G. Komen vanilla/vanilla classic & Oreo]

I love cake.  Late last week, we tried out SAS Cupcakes in the Blakeney distict of Charlotte.  The shop was absolutely adorable, with every corner filled with festive hats, candy, cupcake sprinkles, and decorations.  And the cupcakes were superb, even though we snuck in an hour before they closed.  Check out their site - they're have multiple locations and they apparently experts at shipping cupcakes!

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Pumpkin Patch.

Although boyfriend and I have spent the past four autumns together, we had yet to carve a jack-o-lantern together until last week.  There are these little pumpkin patches set up by local farmers all along the highway.  Strolling around the rows of pumpkins to find the perfect one was so charming, and I even whipped up a simple batch of pumpkin seeds when we carved what we deemed as our "Precious Moments" lookalike pumpkin.

Classy Halloween.

[Outfit details.  Hat via.]

I've loved Halloween since I was a kid.  The dressing up, wonderful candy, and everyone believing in magic is just right up my alley.  As this is my first All Hallow's Eve out of college, I think a more adult take on the holiday is in order.  Outfits composed of everyday classy elements and one or two costumey accessories.

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Maxied Out.

[Gianni Bini dress, Steve Madden sandals, Michael Kors bag, garnet jewelry, OPI polish Here Today, Aragon Tomorrow]

A late September Georgia wedding is a difficult thing to dress to.  After sorting through racks after racks of gorgeous (but entirely inappropriate) sweater-dresses and knits, I saw just this one dress, in my size, and fell in love.  I don't have anything one shoulder, maxi, or paisley, yet I can see myself wearing this again and again.

A Day for the Laboring.

[GAP tank and pants, Nine West heels, Cupcakes and Cashmere for Coach purse, gifted silver bangles]

Happy Labor Day!  I'm not sure who wrote the rulebook on not wearing white after today, but whatever.  I don't like the idea of banning a color from my closet, even if I've already started gravitating towards darker tones as the weather cools (and has become very windy).  We went out for dinner with my parents last night, so I decided to toss on my white heels, in case I loose my nerve in coming months.  Here's to the laboring and for getting a day off!

Gray Matters.

[Express tank, American Eagle cardigan, Banana Republic jean capris, Nine West flats, handmade necklace, white iPhone 4 with Incipio case]

This week's going slow because boyfriend and I work opposite shifts almost all week.  Since I'm constrained in rather boring suits all day, I instantly want warmth and comfort (and low side ponytails) when I get home.  Perfect for getting pizza (a twice-a-week college habit we will not break).

A sweet little story:

Several years ago, my grandmother made me this necklace.  She gave my sister and I a couple necklaces and bracelets, and told us how she made them.  Even though I was still very young, I remember being old enough to want to remember that moment, because I knew it was special... like a first date or graduation.  It was in the air.  She told us how she carefully collected the seeds, dried them, drilled tiny holes in each side, and matched them up according to size before painting, varnishing, and stringing them - all individually by hand.

When I was a freshman in college, I went home for the weekend early after she went into the hospital.  Late that Saturday night, I left and went to my house to take a shower.  Mom called and I heard her tell me through tears that she had passed.  Before I went back to the hospital, I pulled apart every jewelry box in my house looking for the one necklace that was still in tact, and that I rarely wore.  Now, I spend all day surrounded by beautiful metals and stones - yet place more value on this made of seeds and elastic.

Beauty comes in many forms.

Quick-nic.

Boyfriend and I both have the day off today, so we're spending time together and continuing the exploration.  We made sure we were up before noon so we could visit a donut shop (seen here) and have a picnic.  After buying one of everything that looked delicious (a tough decision in itself), the baker threw in two bags of free donut holes and we checked out the park across from our apartment.  What a perfect (and filling) way to start the day.

[Threw on an no-fuss outfit: Ann Taylor tee, handmade denim cutoffs, TOMS, and Miu Miu shades.]

Sights for Sore Eyes.

[Calvary Church.  We've passed this incredible piece of architecture a couple times, but I want to stop and be in awe for a while.  It's huge! via.]

While we've been Charlotte residents for just over two weeks, I feel like the imaginary checklist of "things we HAVE to see" keeps getting longer and longer.  We had the joy of visiting one museum last weekend (seen here), but there is so much more at our fingertips, I just don't know how we will find the time to see it all!  Here's just a few of the Charlotte-unique venues that are ranking at the top of the list.

[The NC Music Factory. via, pre-edits.]

[Carowinds amusement park!!  You can see the coasters from the highway, and my inner child starts screaming.  via, pre-edits.]

[Festival in the Park.  It's supposed to be a weekend full of local music and artisans!  via, pre-edits.]

[South Park Mall.  Yes, a mall full of high-designer stores is on my list.  I cannot wait to sink my teeth into it.  via, pre-edits.]

Charlotte's MVB

I feel very fortunate (and totally stoked) to be a finalist for Charlotte's Most Valuable Blogger (in the Lifestyle category).  You can vote once per day until September 9, and I truly appreciate each and every vote.

Vote For Gold, Glitter, & Glory here

A Little Lace.

[Vintage lace shirt, Express skirt, Nine West flats, Miu Miu shades]

I bought this lace shirt at my favorite vintage store in Savannah a couple months ago.  I love the sheer shoulders and peek-a-boo back.  This weekend was fun.  We picked up a few great things at the local flea market, as well as reclaimed a chest of drawers that will be getting a makeover later this week.  I also started a new job yesterday, and the move to Charlotte feels more and more right every day.

Wet Wellies.

As I've mentioned, it rains so much in North Carolina.  Or it has for the past two weeks at least.  It's making me reconsider how important rainboots (or as they call them in England, wellies) are.  Although I have some very festive yellow rainboots (seen here), it's evident that I am in need of some options.  Here's the top contenders.

1. Big Peacock.  By Chooka.  $60.  (See my peacock feather obsession here)

2. Air Tali Quilt Rainboot.  By Cole Haan.  Shown in willow.  $250.

3. Turks.  By Hunter.  Shown in sand.  How awesome are rainFLATS?  $95.

4. Pelican Tall Boot Lug.  By Sperry Top-Sider.  Shown in green plaid.  $70.

5.  The Regent Savoy.  By Hunter.  Shown in black.  $175.

And just in case you still don't have your rain fix, there's always Streisand:

 

REALity.

Last week I cam across an interesting blog (called Fashion Bloggers, Why!? - warning, it's vulgar) that pretty much bashes some of the world's leading fashion bloggers for dressing unrealistically or promoting an unfair expectation of beauty.  While I don't agree with a lot of the posts, I can see where the author is coming from.  Blogging seems to be taking off and is starting to influence the fashion world, instead of the blogs being influenced by fashion.  I obviously don't look 100% in all of my outfit posts, but I also don't post pictures I would consider terribly unattractive.

So just for the record (and so I never get heckled for being pretentious), I announce that I dress like a hobo when I am home.  Seriously.  I snapped this after I came in from an interview this week.  About 10 seconds after I had thrown my pencil skirt and heels across the room, I was already in an old baggy Henley tee and hand-decorated boxers from my sophomore year.

I don't think there is anything wrong with trying to look your best.  But no one does it all the time.  Even fashion bloggers, and especially me.  Be yourself, and be comfortable doing it.